Saturday, June 22, 2024

The Happiest Person

The Happiest Person
''The happiest people seem to be those who have no particular cause of being happy except that they are so''.
                                   William Arthur Ward


🧐"Ask yourself a question today. Are you happy with your life, or are you just going with the flow?
Most of the answers will come from you, such as, "If I get a government job, everything will be good, and I will be happy with my life."
I ask you again: Are you 100% sure that you would be happy? What would happen when you face job pressure, married life pressure, and many of your future dreams? How would you manage your life?

👩🏼I ask the same question to the girls: Are you happy with your life?
They have multiple answers for not being happy in their lives. Some of them will say that if we get a job and marry a well-settled person, then they would be happy."
🗣  I am going to share my friend's story. We used to work at the same institute, but for some reason, I had to leave. After 2-3 years, I received a call from a girl asking me how I was doing and what was going on in my life. I was surprised to hear from her. After talking for a few minutes, she told me that she wanted to resume her studies and find a job. I realized that something was wrong and asked if she was facing any problems. Initially, she denied it and said she was fine, but after I insisted, she started crying and revealed that she was facing difficulties in her married life. She had married into a wealthy political family, but they were treating her like a servant and not respecting her. Feeling trapped, she felt like she had no choice but to consider drastic options. She called me for guidance on what to do.
                                    
                       🤔   After reflecting on this, I've come to realize that many parents and girls believe that their daughters will only be happy if they marry into a rich and well-established family. However, true happiness comes from receiving love and support from one's partner, and cannot be bought with money. A good example of this can be seen in the case of the renowned cricketer, Hardik Pandya.

😊🥰Happiness does not solely depend on wealth; it also requires a contented mind and the desire to acquire things with a sense of peace and composure.
😍When we consider the happiest people, it's clear that they are those who have parents who support them unconditionally and a partner who stands by them through thick and thin, assuring them of their unwavering support. The happiest individuals don't dwell on what they don't have but instead find joy in what they do have.

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