Regret

 Regret

"Regret is an odd emotion because it comes only upon reflection" - Jonathan Safran Foer

Regret is a mistake from the past that we feel in the present. In our pursuit of success, we often make mistakes, both knowingly and unknowingly, and these lead to feelings of regret in the present.

At times, we find ourselves wondering about the things we should or shouldn't have done in the past and how they might have impacted our present. This preoccupation can lead to conditions like hypertension, depression, and anxiety. This is becoming increasingly common among today's youth and often leads to sorrow.

Does regret exist in every human being? When it comes to young people who are in the midst of striving towards their dreams, it seems to be more prevalent. However, excessive regret can hinder one's efficiency in their work.

Speaking from my own experience, I struggled academically during my school days and obtained a low score in my 10th grade. After facing numerous challenges, I realized the extent of my father's hard work. He had the capacity to work for almost 20 hours a day. I made a promise to myself to make him proud, and I began to prepare and teach. Sadly, he fell ill in 2018 and passed away in January 2019. From that day onwards, I have always regretted not achieving something substantial while my father was still with me. Additionally, I've also experienced the departure of close friends, leaving me to question the reasons behind their leaving.

We've all made mistakes in the past and felt regret in the present. Should we always dwell on past mistakes? I don't think so. Instead, we should learn from our past and focus on the present. We should strive to fulfil the desires of those close to us and ensure that we never have to regret anything in the future. Inspired by our fathers and the boundless love of our mothers, we should work hard to make them proud and fulfil their wishes.